Since I'm somewhat realistic, I know I'd never get a book of my
thoughts published, so rather than create a book, I'll just throw bits
and pieces on here when I feel like it.
So, pretty much all of us have heard the question, "Do you believe in Love at first sight?" Common
answers to that by people my age is either "No" or "That's lust". To an
extent, I believe this. I'm not going to question anyone else's
definition of Love here, these are just my thoughts. I think it's hard
to know if you're in Love by just saying it or waiting for a period of
time. I often look back on the times I spent with someone I might Love,
and from the decisions I've made in the past and my current feelings
for the person. This can be used to (in a roundabout way) prove Love at
first sight. If you can remember the ways you acted around a person
when you first met them, and how your relationship developed, it's very
possible that you might have Loved that person without even knowing it.
That's almost easy to see when something tragic happens in your
significant other's life early on. If you did something admirable, or
came to their figurative rescue, then maybe you were in Love.
Of course it could always just be lust, but it's all in the circumstances, right?
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